This is probably as close to stalking as it gets, but a man has to do what a man has to do! I saw another picture of my 88-year old birth mother on Facebook, along with her two great grandchildren. It made me sad that we’ve been unable to reconnect and inspired this letter to her son:

Dear Jerry,

I’m not a car guy but appreciate some of the classics you’ve restored. I have, however, been involved in the racing business. We also have grandchildren and divorce in common.

Over the past five years, I’ve sent several letters to you, Edna, and Janet, without a single response, even though we share the same genetic ties. We even look a little alike. There has been no acknowledgement, not even a “get lost.” We are half-brothers – several DNA tests prove it, regardless of how embarrassing or shameful the circumstances might have been for your mother at age 17.

We have a common friend and relative, Deb, who I have met and shared my documentation. She will vouch for the fact that I’m a decent guy with nothing more than a friendly agenda. I find it hard to believe that you aren’t even curious. You’ve already unfortunately lost two other brothers, while I will be seventy in a few months. Time is short!-ye

 I’m not really looking for anything but a simple hello – even returning the enclosed self-addressed, stamped envelope empty will at least tell me that I’ve done everything possible to make contact. You can also text, e-mail, friend me on Facebook, or call me at any time. We don’t even have to get your mother involved, if that’s a concern. I understand that she denies my existence or claims not to remember. It was a cruel world for single mothers in 1951. I was lucky to find loving parents through adoption.

You’re probably getting ready to retire like I did five years ago, so you may get more interested in genealogy or family history. I also have legitimate DNA connections with Bruce and other cousins that can further confirm our connection.

Please give me a chance to tell my story, at least to you, starting with a simple acknowledgment that you got this letter. It might be interesting for both of us!

 

Best Regards, Mike

 

We’ll see what happens!