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Category: TRAVEL (Page 44 of 45)

Retirement is not without Hassles: New York Minute #316

Our trip to the Big Apple went by like a “New York Minute.”  As is the case with any trip away from home, it takes time to prepare for the journey and then effort to reorganize once you finally return. I can’t imagine what this process would be like on an extended journey.

I have never had the opportunity to travel for more than 12 days at a time. Work never allowed for more than a week at a time off, stretched between two weekends and maybe a holiday bonus. With my wife still working, this restriction on travel will continue for at least another five years, and I will have to wait to spend more time away from home. It’s probably not affordable anyway, with pet sitting expenses and short-term vacation quarters. At some point, we will sell our home, be without pets, take a world cruise, or live abroad for a year or longer. In the meantime, I’ll be content accompanying my wife on short business trips extended into weekends, family obligated get-togethers, and 10-day travel adventures to bucket-list destinations.  We’ll continue to practice packing and unpacking until we get it right.

It’s always good to get back home, see the pets, and settle back into a routine. Travel continues to be a $1000 a day investment on top of general living expenses. It’s more like a $1000 a week to simply stay home. We’ll undoubtedly end up spending more time at home later in life, eventually tiring of travel schedules, hotel changes, and toting heavy luggage. There’s still a lot to see and do. Or, will the money and energy just dry up first?

 

 

Retirement is not without Hassles: No Date #258

It’s date night and I have no date.  My wife is on a business trip to D.C., so it will probably be chicken pot pie for me tonight.  I did cook last night but had to remake the glaze for my flank steak, after burning the first batch.  The whole house smelled like burnt garlic, so it wasn’t one of my better efforts in the kitchen.  I should probably stick to the microwave, but I would really like to become more proficient with my cooking.  I don’t feel comfortable around the oven yet, and one night a week may not be enough to build confidence.  It’s been very stressful finding my way, and I’m lucky that I haven’t burnt or cut myself yet.

My wife woke me up at about 5 a.m. in anticipation of an 8 a.m. flight.  I was not motivated to run, so it was a slow process getting up.  With the cancellation of Pints to Pasta and the $250 price tag to run the Portland Half Marathon, I’m currently without a goal.  I am sitting at 3,181 consecutive days and counting on my running streak, but that only gets me out the door each morning and through the first mile.  With all those extra miles that I ran to get ready for the Hood to Coast Relay, I need to maintain this new level of fitness.  I had already run a 10-mile training run last week, and felt ready to do more distance, but the fires affected the Pints to Pasta course and they were forced to cancel.  I got a notice today for the Shamrock Run, but that isn’t until March, so I need to make a firm commitment to Run Like Hell or the Holiday Half.

I don’t plan to leave the house again today, with the exception of a couple of short dog outings.  I’m stocked-up on Diet Coke, peanut butter, and bananas so there’s really no need to leave.  i may do some more travel planning for 2018, since flights, hotels, and rental cars have all been secured for the remainder of this year.  My wife is chained to the office for budget planning in January, but in February we’ll go to Phoenix for her annual meeting.  Baseball schedules for 2018 were just released yesterday, so I’ll plan to attend some White Sox or Cubs games in L.A., Chicago, San Francisco, Phoenix, New York, Miami, St. Louis, San Diego, Denver, Washington D.C., and Seattle.  Opening Day is March 29th, the day we return from our overseas adventure to Amsterdam, Venice, Croatia, and Athens, part of which is a Viking Cruise.  In April, we’ll attend a wedding in Hualtulco, Mexico, and perhaps extend that weekend to include Puerto Vallarta.  There will be at least four trips into Chicago next year, a long weekend in Vancouver to see the Gardens, a French Laundry dinner, Broadway Shows, and at least two get-togethers with my grandchildren.  It will be another busy and expensive year of travel that will require a lot of planning.  While we don’t have a date tonight, there are certainly many ahead of us!

Old Sport Shorts: Oops #231

Just when I thought the Cubs were on a roll (see Post #228), they stumbled and fell instead.  They lost the final game of the series to the bottom-dwelling Reds and then proceeded to lose a series at Philadelphia – the worst team in baseball.  Although the Cubs outscored them 21-15 in the three games, pitching continued to be their Achilles Heel.  What makes matters worse is that the Brewers are starting to play great baseball, winning their series against the Dodgers, who hadn’t lost a series to any team since June.  Chicago still maintains a 2-game lead in the Central, but they’ll have to get by the Pirates at home and rely on the Cards to slow the Brewers momentum.  It’s frustrating to see that no team in the Central is taking command, especially the Cubbies when the schedule favors them.  Oops!

College football started over the weekend, and the Oregon State Beavers fared poorly.  I was also disappointed to see that Ohio State had a 95% probability of beating Indiana this week.  It’s embarrassing to be an I.U. alumni during football season, when you see an opposing conference team come in to your stadium and literally take-over the stands.  I once heard that I.U. takes recruiting pictures of this game, including aerial shots, because it’s the only time the stadium is full and everyone is wearing red.  It’s also the only opportunity for some Buckeye fans to see their team play, since a ticket in Columbus is hard to get.  I.U. fans are glad to sell their tickets at a premium and avoid the humiliation of another loss.  It’s hard to walk by all the temporary concessions selling buckeye necklaces and flags, while nobody is in line to buy Hoosier gear.  Once more, the fact that Indiana was chosen as their opening game opponent, like we’re a Division II practice game, makes me feel second-rate LITTLE in the BIG conference.  Hopefully, basketball season will be here soon.

Speaking of basketball,  Archie Miller, I.U.’s new coach (See Post #35) got his first big-time recruit, 6′ 8″ Race Thompson, out of Minnesota.  He’ll red shirt for a year, hoping to bolster his 4-star, #101 ranking in the 247 Sports Composite, before he faces BIG opposition.  It’s a great name for a basketball player in Indiana, home of the Indianapolis 500 and Daytona 500, but I hope he’s not slow.  I can’t wait until January 30, 2018 when Ohio State is done playing football and I.U. gets to take over Value City Arena, wearing our flashy red-and-white striped warm-up pants.  Hopefully, I’ll be proud to be a Hoosier again by that point.  At least, there will be no more Thad Motta, just Chris Holtmann, another Butler steal for the Buckeyes.

I’m also excited for the Chicago Bears, who seem surprisingly competitive in the preseason.  It turns out they weren’t booing Mitchell Trubisky, just saying TRU….  Former I.U. running back stand-out, Jordan Howard, will be with him in the backfield this year.  I had the pleasure of watching Howard dominate the Vikings at Soldier Field last year, just after enjoying the Cubs victory in Game 5 of the World Series at Wrigley.  It was quite an eventful Halloween weekend in Chicago.  Chances are that the other popular  I.U. star, Kyle Schwarber of the Cubs, won’t be getting a chance for a back-to-back World Series victory.  The lowly Phillies certainly had their say.

Retirement is not without Hassles: Links of Friendship #175

It’s good to be home and at my desk once again.  I’ve added another 6600 miles to my retirement travel log, bringing my total to nearly 40,000 for the year. Not bad, for someone my wife calls a “homebody.”  It’s always great to get together with family and friends, explore new places, and get some fresh air, but there’s no place like home.   I get to stay in our house now for about three weeks before our trip to San Francisco to meet up with the grand kids.  My desk is cluttered with unopened mail, bank statements, bills, receipts, souvenirs, and travel brochures.  I was just looking at a 2019 Viking cruise from London to Norway to see the Northern Lights, so it’s easy to get distracted when your mission is simply to reorganize.   Several loads of laundry await my attention in the next room, as I still have some unpacking to do.

I got back from Miami in the middle of the night, and got up early to take the dogs to the Coast, so last night was my first good sleep in my own bed.  The dogs sure enjoyed their romp on the beach, as the tide was out, exposing a great deal more sand than usual.  Their big dog friends played in the surf, while Tally, our youngest schnauzer, searched for an escape route up the steep cliffs.  I swear she’s a mountain goat, and would normally keep her on a leash, but she was securely contained in a canyon bordered by water and rocks, much too high for her to scale.

While the dogs played, I spent the afternoon with a group of my home town cronies, reminiscing about our high school and college days.  All of us are married, but this was the first of several days planned for just the boys.  There will be five of us for a weekend of guitar playing, dining, beer drinking, wine tasting, live music, and just catching-up.  In a way, I’m the outsider, since I’m a year older and none of them was ever a college room mate.  The other four lived together at one time or another, so they have a lot more history.  Plus, they’ve all been good about staying in touch,while I drifted in and out of their lives.  I was the first one married, and wasn’t part of the original migration to the West Coast.  While three of us now live in Oregon, one currently lives in Denver, and the other two in San Francisco.  Since I’ve only lived on the West Coast for three years, I hadn’t seen Eric for nearly 30 years until just recently when he and his wife visited.  It had been over 17 years since Mike and I reunited yesterday, and nearly 10 years have passed since Dan and I were together in Maui.  It’s definitely a “Big Chill” weekend.

This first year of retirement has been filled with 15 instances of re-connection, starting back in February (Post #15).  According to my wife, who dabbles in numerology, I’m going into a “Nine Year,” the end of the numbers cycle,  when people from the past re-enter your life as part of reflection and review.   Face Book has played a role in two of these coincidental encounters with people from my past.  My college room mate and I got together in Tucson after 45 years, and just a couple of weeks ago I found another lost friend after 10 years at a Chicago White Sox game.  There have been an inordinate number of chance reunions with former bosses, neighbors, co-workers, friends, and clients already this year.  I’ve also made arrangements for two more get-togethers in the next few months, as others continue to re-enter my life.  I can’t remember another year with so many of these rewarding encounters with long-lost acquaintances.

With today’s Social Media outlets, it’s more difficult to lose friends and easier to stay in touch.  Also, you get to know people before you meet them.  A good example was a friend of mine’s parents who I just met in Florida.  I had seen their photos posted for years, so as I was introduced, it felt like I’ve always known them.  Furthermore, there’s no longer that shocking surprise of not seeing someone for a long time because you’ve watched them change via Social Media.   Even though I don’t see my grand kids on a regular basis, I can at least watch them grow-up through daily picture sharing.  I can remember when the first thing you said to a kid was, “wow, you’ve really grown tall!”   Nowadays, you aren’t surprised at all, and they aren’t embarrassed by the obvious.  By the same token, about 90% of Face Book posts seem to be related to good news – promotions, vacations, achievements, accomplishments, and friendship.  The bad news is communicated in a much slower manner.  Obituaries, illnesses, misfortune, and pain are still typically delivered by phone.  It’s tough to get those phone calls, and to think about all the broken links in life.

The dogs are quiet today, resting up from an exhausting yesterday.  As I enjoy the quiet here at home, I’m glad that people from the first quarter of my life are still around in the third quarter, even if they were missing in the second quarter.  Who knows who will be around for the fourth quarter – if there is a fourth quarter?  I’m in the second half of the third quarter, enjoying retirement and savoring friendship.  I hope there are many more missing links from my life that get reconnected, and wondering if there will be reunions in the afterlife?   There are a number of people that I would love to talk to, as we all try to make sense of the good, bad, and ugliness of life.

Old Sport Shorts: That’s The Way The Ball Bounces #157

I’ve spent a lot of time on sitting on planes with nothing but my computer to occupy retirement, and they continue to be constructive hours towards getting some words on a page.  I’ll continue in a baseball-mode from yesterday’s “Old Sport Shorts” post about the “Damn Yankees.”  Well, they did it again, easily whipping my White Sox at Guaranteed Rate Field. The beating was apparent in the Yankees first at bats, taking a 3-0 lead in the top of the first inning.  I hadn’t even had a hot dog yet, but was already beginning to lose my appetite.

I had a couple of martinis at “Harry Caray’s” restaurant before we hopped-on the Red Line for the ballpark.  Rain showers looked like they were going to delay the start of the game, and there was no batting practice since the tarp covered the infield as we arrived.  Good memories of being there for the 2005 World Series dominated my thoughts as we searched for our box seats.  I did not have a seat for the World Series back in 2005, but a “Press Pass” badge dangled from the lanyard around my neck.  The crew from my television station that I rode with to Chicago had just done a live shot for our Early News just outside the stadium.  There was a strong sense of optimism for a Sox victory that I sensed in the early-arriving crowd that overfilled the stands.  The ballpark was then called U.S. Cellular Field or “The Cell.”  It was originally called Comiskey Park, but major sponsorship has apparently lowered it’s status to just a field.  It’s difficult to adopt the new “Guaranteed Rate” name after knowing it so many years as simply Comiskey.  “The Cell” was kind of a nice compromise between a last name and a corporate identity.  Last night, there were a noticeable number of empty seats, characteristic of a team with the worst record in the American League.  It appeared as if there were more Yankee fans in the crowd, but I certainly expected higher attendance to see the best team in the American League and their rookie slugger, Aaron Judge.  As they used to say on the comedy TV show, Laugh-In, “Here Come de Judge!”

The White Sox did rally in the 5th inning to make it 3-2, so I ordered a hot dog to celebrate.  However, by the time I got to my second hot dog, and was in the process of loading it with mustard, I nearly missed “De Judge” hit a line-drive rocket into the left field stands, his MLB-leading 27th home run of the season. It left the field of play so fast that it was hard to spot, and I had to wait until this morning to see the replay.  The home team wisely does not like to flaunt the success of the opposition on the big screen!  The second hot dog was not as tasty as the first, during this evil Yankee surge to take an 8-2 lead.

My wife played games on her I-pad during most of the action, but did grow fond of the name, Melky Caberra, but left to use the facilities during the five-run Yankee outburst.  She heard the roar of the crowd, and knew she missed something when she finally returned to our seats.  I patiently explained that Aaron Judge just might be the next Babe Ruth, and she seemed impressed.  I had spent the day before, admiring a friend’s massive sports memorabilia collection in Indianapolis.  It’s truly much more impressive than the Smithsonian!  He has an autographed Babe Ruth bat and ball in one of the many trophy cases.  My wife has admired it on several occasions while we lived in Indy.  Albert Pujols had just recently been to visit it, and my friend let him take a swing, so he wanted his autographed ball placed in the same case, as close to the bat as possible.  My collector-friend has found a special item for my wife to give me for my birthday, and she was hoping that it was the Babe’s Bat.  If he would even sell it, it would not be in Trump’s gift budget, and besides she would have had to buy it from Albert Pujols!

I was hoping to see some White Sox “fireworks” last night, and witness the scoreboard explosion, but that was yet to happen with the score escalating to 10-2.  The Yankees had several homers, reminiscent of the game 57 years ago that my dad took me to see.  The newly installed “Monster” in 1960 was equally quiet that night, but Mickey Mantle and Roger Maris easily found the bleacher seats, while Manager Casey Stengel greeted them at the dugout steps with sparklers that he had brought to mock the flashy scoreboard.  The White Sox did homer in the bottom of the 9th last night to narrow the rout to 12-3, but we had left long before that brief moment of Sox success.   I suspect that only Yankee fans were left to see the consolation prize.

My wife got her Dippin’ Dots, a treat we had ordered at our first Yankees game together in NYC back in 1999.  We also stood on top of the Observation Deck of the World Trade Center that morning, something we will never get the chance to duplicate after the 911 attack the following year.  She was happy to exit the stadium early last night, with the game threatened by thundershowers and more Yankee home runs!  On the way out of Guaranteed Rate, after loss was surely guaranteed, I bought a “surprise” baseball for my modest sports collection of memorabilia.  There was definitely no guarantee of who’s signature would be on the ball I purchased, but it was for Sox charity.  After witnessing defeat-in-the-making and watching the giddy Yankee fans, I figured that the autograph would probably turn out be equally as worthless as the game itself.  In fact, when I opened the Chinese take-out box that concealed the surprise ball, I was not even familiar with the name!

The signature on the ball belonged to Yoan Moncada, a top prospect from Cuba that the White Sox acquired through the Red Sox as part of the Chris Sale trade.  Yoan is a minor league offensive sensation with exceptional speed that could be a future star when he’s brought up from Charlotte.  He’s apparently not much on defense, but wears the #10 White Sox jersey of arguably the best defensive catcher the game has ever seen.  (See Post #5:  Who Was That Masked Man?)  The surprise was then worth every penny of my donation, and gives me something to look forward to in August when they finally add him to the roster help “pick up the pieces” from a seemingly dismal White Sox season.

One additional magical moment happened at the ballpark last night.  I posted a picture of the famous “Monster” scoreboard on Facebook, and at the same time noticed that a long-lost business-friend had posted a similar photo at about the same time.  She was in the stands, and responded to my comments on being in the same place at the same time.  Shortly after, she graciously came down to our seats for a short reunion, having just spent some time with White Sox Hall-of-Famer, Frank Thomas.  It had been over a decade since my wife and I had worked with her on several syndication projects.  She had once given me an autographed copy of “M is for Murder,” from my author-heroine, Sue Grafton.  It had been personally signed, “M is for Mike.”  (See post #128)  Her visit, and sparkling personality, made my wife’s night at the ballpark special above and beyond the Dippin’ Dots, and allowed us to get her current contact information.  That’s the second re-connection I’ve made this year through Facebook. (See Post #15).

After a night of coincidences, for a brief moment I imagined that my surprise baseball could be signed by Frank Thomas.  I do have his autographed Hoosier brand bat in my collection at home.  Yoan Moncada will do nicely, though, especially because of the #10 that I wore in my mediocre days on the diamond, because of former White Sox, Sherm Lollar.  Ron Santo also wore #10 for the White Sox after coming over from the Cubs, so he bridges my connection with the two Chicago teams.  I admit being fickle, favoring the winner!  I also like the fact that the Chicago Cubs were once the Chicago White Stockings, so I can justify them in my mind as the same team.  Baseball history is important to me, as well, so the evolution of jersey #10 from past to future players is cool.  However, #10 should have been retired, and Sherm Lollar should be in the National Hall of Fame, not just in the White Sox Hall of Fame. (See Post #5).

The Yankees continued to score runs, long after we left the ballpark, had taken the Red Line back to our parked rental car, and then returned it to Hertz at O’Hare.   The “Damn Yankees” ultimately amassed 13 runs – only unlucky for the home team!  We finally arrived at the Airport Renaissance hotel, where during our last visit the Cubs won the World Series on November 2nd, as we watched from the bar with a group of strangers, all on the edge of our seats.

As part of that Chicago visit, we had gone to games 4 and 5 at Wrigley, watched game 6 with my wife’s mother back in Indiana, and thanks to the cancelled flight were able to watch the finale from Cleveland at the Airport Renaissance.  If it weren’t for the cancellation, I would have been stuck on the low-budget airline without Wi-Fi and would have missed the whole celebration.  It was result of a plan I put together just after home field for the World Series was determined by the All-Star Game.  I bought some cheap airline tickets from Portland to Chicago, but miscalculated the date of the return flight.  I chuckled to myself as I booked the trip in, knowing it would take a grandiose-kind-of-miracle for the Cubs to finally ever host World Series games.  My fear of also jinxing the possibility of this miracle, was then rationalized by purchasing tickets for the Bears game against the Vikings on Halloween, just in case.  My foolish notion was additionally fueled with the potential difficulty of securing tickets should everything somehow fall into place.

As it turned out, the Cubs won game 5 and the hapless Bears somehow beat the Vikings, so I got the best of both worlds.  I also went to Harry Caray’s, just as we did yesterday, but added the Billy Goat Tavern last year just to help break the curse. We were lucky on the return flight, just as we were lucky to run into our friend last night at the game.  Plus, all those memories of Cubs glory came flooding back, as I stood in the bar at the Renaissance this morning.  I then did the same victory run that I completed back in November, sadly acknowledging that the Cubs were in danger of losing the series to the Nats, but also sent both Montero and Schwarber down to the minors, and have lost Zobrist and now Bryant to injuries.  Plus, the White Sox were drubbed by the Yankees again last night, who may very well be the team to replace the Cubs as World Series Champions.  This morning’s run was indeed troublesome, but that’s the way the ball bounces!

Retirement is not without Hassles: Countdown #139

As I go outside to run each morning, I keep trying to see “Future Mike.”  Future Mike is coming in the door, already finished with his run, while I’m just headed out that door.  Most days I wish I was Future Mike, but that’s like wishing your life away.   I know that running is good for me and I always feel better afterwards, but I don’t always enjoy the experience of sweating and breathing hard.  I’m glad it’s over for today, so I can spend some time writing.

I’m a bachelor for a couple of days while my wife attends some business meetings.  Her company is headquartered in Iowa, “Field of Dreams,” a state that is definitely not at the top of my list of retirement destinations (post #138).  Needless to say, Future Mike is not interested in living there.  Since she was gone this morning, I took the opportunity to sleep in an extra couple hours, but find myself totally disoriented.  It feels like a weekend since I stepped away from my normal routine of getting up just before my wife.  I guess that’s what made the run that much harder this morning.

The Mike of the future will probably still be running every day, and hopefully be traveling around the world.  If I can figure out a way to “Time Travel,” I’ll probably do that, too.  My future self will also be enjoying the next stages of retirement, and not reliving the dreaded Ghost of Work Past.  Maybe I’ll buy myself a DeLorean!  Seriously, I’m not sure I want to think about the future right now, just savor the present.

One way to look to the future is to do a countdown.  These are usually started when you’re looking forward to something.  For example, I did a countdown to retirement.  If I go to the Viking Cruise website, there is a countdown clock showing 277 days until our trip from Venice to Athens happens.  Fortunately, we can only count up when it comes to life, otherwise our lifetimes would be hopelessly ticking away.  I’m counting on another 30 years, but as we all know, today could be my last.  On a more exciting note, I did see a SUV this morning with a countdown to summer written on the glass windows.  It started at 10 and all the numbers were crossed off except 2 and 1.  Two days and counting until school is out and summer is here.

10  9  8  7  6  5  4  3  2  1 Summer

Having the summer off was always good for us kids, but posed a challenge for working parents.  The countdown for them was always the opposite, as they looked forward to the start of a new school year.  We’re currently counting down to my wife’s birthday in 5 days, but knowing her as I do, she’ll manage to stretch it for a good month.  With a little luck, maybe I can stretch my next 30 years, as well.

I remember looking forward to summers, holidays, and weekends, but now every glorious day is the same.  We’ll still celebrate my birthdays, even if there aren’t really any additional Senior Citizen discounts for me after this year.  I will therefore not be counting down the days with anticipation.  If I still stayed up until midnight on New Year’s Eve, I would gladly participate in that countdown celebration.  We’ll also start a countdown for my wife’s retirement in five years.  By the way, only one more day until she gets back home from “Field of Dreams.”

Countdowns can include fractions.  I’ve updated a poem that I wrote in the month of October over 15 years ago, that shows the art of getting the most out of each of life’s events.  I mention the month it was originally written so you don’t get spooked that Halloween is just around the corner, but it will be here before we know it.  Only 138.5 days away if you want to start a countdown!

Fractions

My loving wife has taught me,
The art of timely fractions.
For celebrating each day,
Is one of life’s satisfactions.

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Events don’t come about,
But once a calendar year.
You shouldn’t have to wait,
Fractions keep them near.

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Days, hours, minutes,
The seconds tick away.
Today’s yesterday’s tomorrow,
Tomorrow is soon yesterday.

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It was just your 1/3 Birthday,
My 1/6th coming soon.
Our 16th Anniversary,
since our Vegas honeymoon.

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Sweetest Day has Passed,
November days away.
And it’s nearly New Year,
Almost Thanksgiving Day.

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Not quite Halloween,
But the countdown has begun.
It seems like only yesterday,
Enjoying summer’s sun.

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As time together passes by,
More magic memories made.
But not a moment shared with her,
That I would ever trade.

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There’s some that I’m not proud of,
Some that made us sad.
I never mean to do you wrong,
Be mean or make you mad.

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I’ve counted every day,
Made calendars and notes.
Today’s 6701 point 5,
My diary denotes.

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Two hundred twenty months together,
Two weeks and a couple hours.
It all adds up to a lot of love,
Gifts, Limoges and Flowers.

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Because we love each other,
The days go by so fast.
Keeping track of fractions,
Helps to make them last.

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I Love her more than anything,
And cherish that each day.
I’ll always give my very Best,
Not a fraction – all the way.

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Retirement is not without Hassles: The View #114

I’ve seen a lot of great views in my life.  Some of them have occurred since I’ve retired while savoring  the sunset of my life.  A few of them were just over a week ago.  It’s hard to top a sunset from the Eiffel Tower, or standing high atop the city of LePecq overlooking Paris. Richard the Lionheart had a great view of the Seine River, from his Castle perch that we climbed to witness as part of that trip.  Even the view of the French countryside from the bow of our river boat made dinner that much more special.

We had spectacular views of the ocean from our Maui excursion that was just a month ago. The ocean walkways in Wailea and Black Rock in Lahaina both afforded memorable Pacific Ocean views.  The view from our catamaran of the whales dancing in the water was a highlight of that trip.  Plus, our dinner at Gannon’s had a wonderful view of the golf course being watered by mother nature.

I’ve seen views from hot air balloons, helicopters, mountain tops, and observation decks in Seattle’s Space Needle and New York City’s skyscrapers.  One of these towering views has changed dramatically as a result of 9/11. There’s been baseball views from the nose bleed seats of Dodger Stadium in Los Angeles and Wrigley Field of a World Series win.  I’ve also enjoyed an aerial view of the Daytona 500 race and a football view of the Seahawks.

Every day in Portland there’s a view to be preserved in the mind.  Mount Hood, Mount St. Helen’s, the Columbia River Gorge, the Tram, Pittock Mansion, the Japanese Gardens, the bridges, and the coast.  We’re lucky to live here, even if the rain does spoil the view at times.

There’s many more views that I hope to see in life, but here’s one I will remember forever:

You and the View

It’s so beautiful where I sit,
You and the view.
Though the scenery is nice,
It’s likely just you.
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The beach so appealing,
The water clear and blue.
But the truth of the matter,
I can’t see past you.
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The background’s a blur,
Since you are in front.
And the vista diminished,
Since it’s you that I want.
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Wherever we go,
You are the view.
It could be spectacular,
But I can’t see past you.
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When I look in your eyes,
I see paradise.
For anything better,
I look at you twice.
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“Don’t miss the view,”
“Whatever you do.”
Amazing, I’m sure,
Since I am with you.
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I wake every morning,
With you at my side.
My eyes may be tired,
But you open them wide.

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I’ve traveled the world,
Awed from thin air.
But I may not have noticed,
If you had been there.
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So stay with me always,
Since my eyes love you.
Ever since I first saw you,
I love your view.
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Copyright 2010 johnstonwrites.com

Retirement is not without Hassles: Milestone #100

I have reached my first milestone in blogging – the 100th post.  My goal is to post something every day. having starting this project on January 1, 2017.  I’m now in my 151st day of retirement, and 51 posts short of my goal!   Here I am in retirement, setting the same lofty standards that I did in the workplace and analyzing my accomplishments!  Relax, man!

Before I get too tough on myself, I did post 40 of these in the month of May, despite a heavy travel schedule.  26 were in April and only 34 in January and February combined, even with a head start late in 2016.  It looks like I’ve finally got my production up to where I would like it to be – averaging about 30 posts a month.  Sometime in September I should reach that 200 milestone.  I still have hundreds of poems to share, and will continue to write new ones.

I just called a former co-worker, now living in Cincinnati, to check on his progress.  He likes his new job and the broadcast company.  His only objection is that they want to know where he is and what he’s doing, things that I no longer have to worry about.  I also just set up a Happy Hour with a former boss and client.  They are involved in the marketing of porta-potties.  Another shitty job!

The Osso Buco that I prepared yesterday turned out fabulous, but it’s still sitting in my stomach.  Between the taste-testing and dining, I overdid my intake just a bit.  Unfortunately, my stomach can easily handle it after the stretching it received with the volume of food consumed on the river cruise.  I’m paying the price on the scales!

I will temporarily come out of retirement to attend the Rose Festival VIP Party with my wife. These were command performances when I was working, and now only for my wife.  I will once again have to wear a tie (see post #83 Wit-Tie), and will start practicing on how to tie it this afternoon.   It will be my first reintegration into the media world since retirement came a calling.

I logged on to the Marriott Vacation Club website for the first time.  The bills are starting to come in, so it’s time to plan the next adventure.  With the benefit of booking 13 months in advance, we may start looking at some of those Far East destinations on the bucket list. We’ve already scheduled a Viking Ocean Cruise for March of 2018 from Venice to Athens and a tentative plan to go to Huatulco/Puerto Vallarta, Mexico in mid-June for a wedding.  Maybe I’ll just never unpack!

I wrote a post about “Mystic River” (Mystic Memory #94) a few days ago.  The book that the movie was based on is written by Dennis Lehane.  He also wrote “Shutter Island” and “Gone Baby Gone,” two other great books that have become movies.  His latest book, “Since We Fell,” is also movie-worthy.  I just finished it, so I can join my friends for a book signing he’s doing here in Portland at Powell’s next week.  We saw him speak just after he released “World Gone By,” so we’re looking to this evening event.  It will interfere with “Cooking Day,” so I will have to make some adjustments on my “busy” retirement calendar next week.

It will be June soon, and I’m thinking that just like holidays, weekdays, birthdays, and vacations, I won’t need months of the year any more.  The days are separated by sleep, but the months and years will all start to run together.  2017 will be remembered as the year that I first retired.  I hope they don’t pass too quickly, as there’s still a lot to do!

 

Retirement is not without Hassles: Date Night Day #97

It’s the middle of the week, and “Date Night” tonight.  Other than that, I have nothing on my calendar today – isn’t retirement great!  My working wife still recognizes today as Wednesday (Hump Day), but since every day is the same for me in retirement, I distinguish it as “Date Night Day.”  Each day of the week I now associate with a specific activity rather than the traditional “MTWTFSS” labels that working people use.  I know it can be confusing, but “what day it is?” really doesn’t matter to me any more.

I’m a little off on my days this week, since the first day of this week was a holiday for my wife. I now only know the first day of the week as “Trash/Cleaning Day,” and had to combine it with yesterday’s “Cooking Day.”  I also had to put the trash out a day early and call my sister a day late.  By the way, she retired last week from being a school teacher.  The only problem is that she was typically not working in the summers anyway, so it really won’t be until school resumes in August before she begins to enjoy the benefits.  The summer months will give her time to practice her newly defined days of the week.

Today I’m back on track, but where will we go on Date Night?  It has to be somewhere we’ve never dined before, but can be in any price range.  With company in town and our vacation schedule, four weeks ago was our last outing.  Revelry was the name of the restaurant here in Portland, and it was our 1,209th different dining experience in the 17 years we’ve been together.  That’s an average of about 1.4 new restaurants that we’ve gone to every week! Since Revelry, we’ve dined in 14 additional new places while we were traveling.  Typically, it would be more when we’re on the road, but Viking Cruises provided most of our meals in France.

We have had a wide range of dining experiences, and our favorites we save for special occasions.  However, some restaurants have NOT been so great – here’s a poem, written a few years ago, to describe such underwhelming experiences:

 

What’s in my Soup?

What’s that in my bowl?
Is this some kind of joke?
It’s swimming laps,
Perhaps the backstroke.
.
“He won’t each much,”
Replies the waiter.
If he’s not careful,
He’ll wear it later.
.
Humorous old bits,
But nothing is funny.
When you have a bad meal,
While paying good money.
.
Dining disasters.
I’ve had my share.
Expecting well-done,
It comes out rare.
.
Lost reservations,
Poor service.
A closed door Kitchen,
Makes me nervous.
.
Not what you ordered?
Too well done?
Or something flies out,
When you lift up the bun.
.
A worm in your veggies,
A spider in your greens.
That’s garden fresh,
Is all that means.
.
Crack a tooth?
Piece of glass?
Or maybe worse yet,
A bad case of gas.

.

I once found a staple,
At a Chinese Buffet.
What’s this sticky stuff,
On my serving tray?

.
Is that a hair on my plate?
Or just a crack?
In either case,
Please take it back.
.
Is today’s special,
A few days old?
Is that blue cheese,
Or some kind of mold?
.
And when dining outside,
Take extra care.
Things can happen,
From out of nowhere.
.
Here’s an example,
That threw me for a loop.
A bird flew over,
And pooped in my soup.

.

Copyright 2012

johnstonwrites.com

 

Retirement is not without Hassles: Buckets and Goals #95

I don’t want to describe myself as a world traveler, since I’ve only seen a small fraction of the earth.  In fact, I haven’t even made it to all 50 states yet.  However, considering it’s approximately 25,000 miles around the world, I have traveled over 28,000 miles in my first 5 months of retirement, so I’m already working on a second loop around the globe!   I will, undoubtedly, more than double that travel mileage total in the next 6 months, based on what we have planned.  I have a goal of reaching a million miles in the 20 years of my retirement.

Goals are just as important in retirement, as they have been all my life.  I religiously have put together a list of business and personal goals for as long as I can remember, and that won’t change.  I love to make lists, diaries, and logs, as this is all part of visualizing and accomplishing dreams.

Here are 20 of my personal goals, to show that I practice what I preach: 

  1. Run three miles every day, but at least one mile regardless of the circumstances.
  2. Attend at least one exercise class every week.
  3. Get at least 7 hours sleep every night.
  4. Talk or write with my son and grandchildren each week.  Contribute to their education and expenses.
  5. Post at least one article every day on www.blog.johnstonwrites.com
  6. Write at least one poem each week.
  7. Spend at least $2,500 monthly on travel (as opposed to save for the future – well, the future is here)
  8. Learn something new every day.
  9. Read a book each week.
  10. Win at Spider Solitaire every day – just for fun.
  11. Complete a Seven Little Words puzzle every day – keep my brain sharp
  12. Weigh myself every day, hoping to lose 5 more pounds.
  13. Add to my collection(s) each week. (baseball cards, limoges boxes, stamps, coins, sports memorabilia)
  14. Celebrate with my wife weekly on our Wednesday Date Night.
  15. Enjoy some time with the dogs (and cat) each day.
  16. Call my sister every Monday (a habit established with my parents before they passed away).
  17. Cook dinner every Tuesday night.
  18. See the beauty in life each day
  19. Take my Grandchildren someplace special each year.
  20. Pay off my credit cards each month without fail (debit card priority)

It’s my granddaughter’s 8th birthday.  They are celebrating at Disney world this week.  Since we’ll be missing this special occasion, the best I could do was send a Disney birthday package of a cake, balloons, snacks, and personalized mouse ears to the room.  I will see them all in Florida in July and again in August  when we all travel to San Francisco.  I wish we had more time together, but work circumstances for my wife have led to thousands of miles between us.

Here are some of the items on our combined bucket list (if you write them down – you do them): 

Hot Air Balloon Ride over Napa Valley (wife has not been in a Hot Air Balloon)

Albuquerque Hot Air Balloon Festival

Helicopter Ride over the Grand Canyon (wife has not been in a helicopter)

Round the World Cruise (when we’re both retired)

Hot Springs and Diamond Crater (search for raw diamonds) – both in Arkansas

Marfa, Texas

Lobster in Maine (Fall) – one of my two missing states

Mt Rushmore (wife has not been there)

Yellowstone Park (wife has not been there)

Arches National Park

Vancouver Gardens

Northern Lights

London Theater District

Venice (planned for 2018)

Egyptian Pyramids

Jungle Safari

Live by the Beach

French Laundry dinner (on a waiting list for August)

Machu Pichu

Rock and Roll Hall of Fame

Cowboy Stadium Dallas

Indiana Basketball Hall of Fame

Billy Joel Concert (planned for December 8th)

Parthenon (planned for 2018)

Return to Rocamadour, France

Hood to Coast Run (planned for August)

Watch my wife’s daughter get her Doctorate diploma

Super Bowl

MLB All-Star Game (planned for July)

Greek Islands (planned for 2018)

Croatia (planned for 2018)

Portugal/Spain

Ireland/England

NYC Annual -3 Broadway Shows each year

Florida Annual (son and grand kids)

DC Annual (daughter)

Kauai Hawaii

Annual Family Vacation

Crater Lake

Moab, Utah

Madison Square Garden Game

Rose Bowl and Parade

LA Coliseum Game

Macy’s Day Parade in NYC

Blair Place – Mendocino, California (Murder She Wrote Bed and Breakfast)

Las Vegas annual

College World Series

Football Hall of Fame Canton, Ohio

Iceland

Alaska Cruise (one of two missing states)

Thailand

Japan

Great Wall of China

Acapulco

Australia/New Zealand

 

It seems a little greedy, but I’ve got 20 years to get there, providing that the “Hassles of Retirement” do not include health issues.

 

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